Friends and heart break

For me it was funny, and at the same time i was enormously gratefull for it, that for some time now always when i 'm going through a break up and my friends got to know about it, they would immeadiatly go after me and ask me things, in a very worried way, like how i was emotionally. I could see by the look in their faces that they did not wanted me feeling like I was. The worried even more about me ' cause of the kind of trouble I've already put them through. And believe me it had been far worse. But the funny part was the quiet desperation they felt in front of me begging to please don't let this happen again, it was hard enough helping the last time it did happened. Honestly i felt sorry for them, but what could I do. Stop trying to be in romantic relationships? That woul be even sadder for me and my self esteem!